9 Responses to “I think my husband is married to someone else while married to me ,what do I do?”

1. i♥pie says:

   March 18, 2010 at 2:02 am

   get rid of his ass as soon as possible >.< i hate peole who cheat
2. Professional Peon says:

   March 18, 2010 at 2:02 am

   OMG girl just leave him.

   I honestly don’ know how to go about finding out if he was previously married but don’t let him treat you like that.

   Pack up you sh(t and go. I mean if you really want to know I would say hire a private investigator, they can probably find out for you.

   But dammmm girl just leave his sorry arrrrssssse
3. thoughtful99 says:

   March 18, 2010 at 2:02 am

   i am an indian but i m nt sure abt the white clothing…could be X’ian or from some states …India is too vast to talk abt it .

   If you are nt working try get a job and take life into your control then you find this woman and contact her and You can then confront him.Catch him with fool proof evidence.Even if he doesnt have relation with another woman how come he talk to yuou like that…..he may be ur husband but he s not the one to decide what you deserve it is you who knows what you deserve…..all the best.

   Staying in a bad marriage is not good for the kids either they are watching and they ll learn from you.Gain self respect and thereby teach them evry human being deserves self respect and we dont need to tolerate anyone in life….good luck
4. Ellen says:

   March 18, 2010 at 2:02 am

   I am so very sorry that you are going through this. I am even more sorry for what I have to write. Sweetie, he wanted you to find those pictures. He wants you to keep looking into things, just so he does not have to have enough spine to tell you himself. It is not an easy decision to make after giving 30yrs of your life to this man. It is your turn at life now. You have beautiful children that you have raised. Let them be your trophy for putting up with him. You are losing nothing by walking away from this man. You will be regaining your self respect and the dignity that you deserve. Send him packing. You know in your heart what those pictures mean. I think that you just needed some validation. I do not think that I am the only one who will give you the same advice. This is your life now. Hold your head high…..Go live it! You owe this man nothing. Not even the time of day. I wish you the peace and happiness that I know will be yours. Although this was not what you wanted to hear, I hope that somehow it has helped. The very best of luck to you.
5. Miss Babydoll says:

   March 18, 2010 at 2:02 am

   I agree with Ellen. There is nothing that should be holding you back from walking away. You deserve you regain the life back that he is just stealing away from you. And for any man to talk to a women that way really needs to have his head knocked in a few times or have something shoved up where the sun dont shine. No one deserves to be treated like that. So I think it is time for you to move on and live your life how you want to. It’s never easy walking away, but you have to think about what is best for your life and your children whether they are grown or not. And you should never have to feel the need to cower down to him. You do not need a man to complete you at all!
6. kray0 says:

   March 18, 2010 at 2:02 am

   you need to leave him, this is a bad situation and you’d be better off without him.
7. angel11 says:

   March 18, 2010 at 2:02 am

   Indians only wear red/marroon/orange or pink for their marriages!!! Thats weird because white represents a funeral or death in india!
8. Jenk says:

   March 18, 2010 at 2:02 am

   i don’t think you should confront him, i mean it’s pretty obvious he’s cheating on you at the VERY least if he isn’t married to this other woman. talk to your lawyer about it, warn your kids and very quietly prepare to leave him.. i’m very sad for you.

   i know it isn’t going to be easy to walk away from your husband even if he doesn’t treat you right, but you have to make the right decision before things really spiral out of control. i hope this works out for you, best of luck.. again, the best thing to do is probably talk to your lawyer first and get some professional advice to avoid legal complications

   good luck
9. Venezia says:

   March 18, 2010 at 2:02 am

   i don’t think anybody wear white on wedding days in India! They love colors!

   I agree with the above answers! Leave him if you think you’re suffering