Should I not invite my son’s grandparents to his 1st Birthday?On 02.08.10, In article
It’s a long long story about everything but basically I hate my husbands parents and I have decided to no longer have a relationship with them.. My son’s birthday is next month and I am unsure what to do.. My husbands step mother is a very very rude person and my mom is a fighter.. [...] Leave a Comment5 Responses to “Should I not invite my son’s grandparents to his 1st Birthday?”Leave a Reply |
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no i don’t think that u should invite her. it’s like you could invite her if you first have a conversation with her telling her how her attitude affects you, and asking her to tone it down. but on top of everything you get stink gifts. no she isn’t worth the trouble at all.
She sounds like a pretty unpleasant person, but part of being an adult is learning to deal with people you don’t like. For your son’s sake, and your husband’s, you need to maintain a civil relationship with the grandparents. You don’t need to pretend you’re great friends, but you do need to learn a skill that’ll come in handy throughout your life: learn how to smile and nod, and let the bad behavior roll off. After all, rudeness always says much more about the person who gives it than the target.
All I can say is I would not invite anyone I thought would ruin what is supposed to be a special day regardless of who they are.
I know how you are feeling. Our daughter tell’s us all the time that our grand baby’s other grandparents do him the same way. I’m not saying that we have a lot of money but we buy for both of our grand kids.
But if they can buy things for the other kids then they can buy for him some times. We tell her all the time not to be mean to them.
But now she is being mean to us and told us that would never see him again. I know that she is just mad but it hurts all of us, our grand baby has been with us cent’s his birth. She lived we us, up until just a few days ago.
Just hang in there and do what you want to do but remember feeling can get hurt.
im 14 and i dont have kids but i do know what you are talking about.
my dads side is a bunch of rich jerks. my parents make pretty good money so for christmas me and my brothers always get ripped off. for instance for the grandkids under 18 we gets a bag of smaller gifts (they call it our stockings) then we get our big gifts. they gave my older brothers who are 22 and 21 stocking last year even though they are over 18 and they also gave all of my other cousins who are over 18 stockings. this year they didnt give my brothers stocking but they gave my other cousins who are over 18 them. then they gave me a bunch of barbies and baby toys and then gve my cousin who is younger and way immature makeup and cool clothes and stuff. my younger brother was also ripped off he got half of what my other boy cousins got. then ontop of that they made my mom break down crying and after we left they called my mom ‘a crazy person’ and called me and my siblings ’spoiled brats’ even though we all thanked everyone for everything we got (we could hear them as we were walking to our car)
i wouldnt invite them to your sons first birthday party and if they ask y just tell them because they are rude. . . i didnt invite my dads side to my 8th grade graduation and i am glad that i didnt because i ended up having a great time.